This show dehumanizes love and makes it look like entertainment love instead of real love. Also, there is a heteronormative vibe here that looks dehumanizing to me, too. It is 2017, not the medieval times where people are supposed to fall in love with the opposite sex. It basically has the emotionally and mentally unstable people that look "beautiful" on the outside. The Bachelor was borderline okay when the 1st season happened, but it basically started going down the drain the more seasons there were.

I've tried to watch this show several times and I just can't get into it because I can't get past how stupid and shallow it is. They take one hunk and put him in a house with a bunch of hot girls and eliminate them to find his "true love"? Honestly? Anyone who thinks that could ever have potential of working is extremely naive. He leads on as many as 28 girls for weeks, kisses them, hugs them, tells them how he "feels" about them and treats all of them like his girlfriend only to dump one each week? What would we think about a guy who did this in real life? He doesn't have genuine feelings for any of them, he's horny. What would we say about him in real life? But because it's a reality show and the guy is "hot" it's okay? Not to mention how every girl is beautiful. It's ridiculous. Does he have sex with all of them too? Because if so... Puke. Everyone talks about this show and I can't understand why for the life of me. I don't get the hype about a guy living in a house of hot girls who he gets to take his pick of and jump back and forth between whenever, not to mention lead all of them on and probably screws them simultaneously. This is the single stupidest, shallowest sluttiest show on TV. Except maybe the bachelorette.

It makes one wonder how this show is still on the air. There's been one couple that has stayed together, married, and has children, but everyone else has broken up. What's the point of continuing this? The show can be entertaining at the beginning. You see all the girls swooning over one man, that almost all of them like instantly. It's just like in real life! The girls start to take sides, bitch one another out, and show their true selves (or so we think). But that one man is left to decide who to pick that he thinks he can marry and live happily ever after.What is true love exactly? How can you fall for someone when you're forced to pick them? This show is unbelievable. You thought dating online was bad, but people have to go on TV to find love? It's not realistic. How could a girl be with a man when he is going out with several others, making out with them? None of these questions are answered, and finally when the show ends, you know there won't be a happy ending in the future. For all we know, everything is scripted.

Just a thought.......but not one minority bachelor/bachelorette?? I didn't even know this trash was still on, but happened to see on the internet a new London bachelor. Are u kidding? This show should be boycotted. It is absolutely ridiculous that more has not been said about the fact that this is a racist show. I believe there is a station for shows like this, FOX news, but ABC, actually the network should be boycotted. I believe I watched the first or second bachelor and then became bored to tears when it was the same crap over and over. Why not watch Days of Our Lives? At least you know its a crock of crap. Anyway, this show is clearly RACIST! But the sad thing is, ABC would put a minority on and still surround he/she with all white men/women and stereotypical minorities. It took Hollywood forever to showcase Lucy Liu, Hallie Berry, Selma Hayek or any pretty minority for that matter. ABC.....how sad.